anyone ever come across such a thing here, were you can talk to other parents to try to solve problems get advice?
What area are you in Harry?
I've not found a group in our area- Rojales/Almoradi but lots of the people I know that have kids meet up several times a week to support each other and have a coffee. Its not at all formal but if you fancy making some friends you could join us. Send me an email if you fancy it.